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Rated 5 out of 5
Australia, Sydney (AEDT)
Counsellor, Founder, Life Coach, Speaker, Trainer

Meet Mentor



“Do not get to the end of your life never having met your highest version of yourself. Rather regret what you did do than what you didn’t do.”

“I did not choose my trajectory, it chose me. I was a young first-time Mom when I had a stillbirth. This was a turning point in my life. Not only did I lose my baby, I lost my dreams, my identity, my confidence. I was at the precipice of going down the rabbit hole of despair when I realised that it would not rewind the past. What I learned is that we suffer more in our imagination than we do in reality.

It showed me how our happiness really does depend on the quality of our thoughts.

I learned that we cannot change anything outside of ourselves yet we can change the way we choose to respond to them. It taught me that none of us get out of life unscathed and that resilience is a learned skill.

It taught me to live wholeheartedly. You can too.”

Career and Skills

  • Psychotherapist
  • Keynote Speaker
  • Wellbeing Coach
  • Mental Health Advocate
  • Meditation Teacher
  • Writer – Content Creator

Live your best life and meet the highest version of YOU

“Watch your thoughts, they become your words, watch your words, they become your actions, watch your actions, they become your habits, watch your habits, they become your character, watch your character, it becomes your destiny”

Lao Tzu




  • Mindset, Mindfulness & Mind Body Connection
  • Relationships
  • Resilience
  • Self Empowerment
  • Emotional Intelligence
  • Meditation
  • Self Esteem, Self Love & Self Identity
  • Coping with Change & Changing Habits
  • Grief and Loss
  • Communication
  • Connection
  • Spirituality and living consciously
  • Finding meaning in your life
  • Anxiety
  • Identifying Goals and working towards them

I Love Being a Mentor Because...

I love being a mentor because I believe we were all born perfect and as we grow older we get conditioned and lose ourselves by carrying beliefs that do not belong to us. I am not here to fix what is wrong with you. I am here to uncover everything that is right with you that is covered in doubt and fear. I want to help you get rid of old beliefs that do not belong to you and adopt the ones that are authentically yours.

I believe the saddest thing in the world is if someone reaches the end of their life and has not met their highest version of themselves. The regret that one would feel is heartbreaking.

I Am Inspired By

I look up to two wonderful women. First is my mother by birth and the second is my ‘second mother’ by the name of Florha, in South Africa.  I guess you could call her my ‘Nanny’ who was with me since birth. She had no house, yet where ever she was she made it home. She had no education, yet she is the wisest person I know. She had no money and yet is the classiest woman I have ever met.

Florha lives in gratitude for everything she has. She taught me patience, and that there are two sides to every story. She taught me that sometimes good people do bad things and bad people do good things. She taught me not to judge. She taught me how to forgive, she taught me everything the western world did not. She truly is an earth angel.

My mother taught me how to laugh at myself and to laugh in the face of adversity. She taught me to change the way I feel, I need to change the way I look at things. She taught me to never mistake kindness for weakness and that where there is a will there is a way.

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